About the gay-BDSM.club
Our goals
Our contribution
The gay-BDSM.club promotes kinky life between men. Our goal is to establish an open, tolerant and meaningful kinky lifestyle for men interested in BDSM and their friends. To do this, we support people in their development, build up relevant knowledge, create opportunities to meet like-minded people and live out their fantasies. We mainly do this with events, but we also offer workshops, coaching, information services and products.
We are also working on a positive visibility of the topic in order to create more acceptance in the long term and to make it easier for everyone to realize their own coming out.
Our events
Our events offer safer spaces for gay men who want to live out their kinky side. Here they can develop their own identity, open up, try things out and find like-minded people.
We also offer events that are more open and aimed at a wider audience, but are still male-based. We also want to specifically integrate people who can identify with male BDSM but don't want to go to a men-only party themselves or who approve of a larger mix of the audience.
We regularly develop and realize new play parties. Some of our parties are man2man (Bondage & Play), Fleischmarkt, DOM/sub Night, Gaybaku, SMash!, Business & Bitches, CMNM, Queer Club Night, Feet-Fetish Party or the Puppy Circuit. More are in preparation and planning. You are also welcome to contact us with your party idea.
Our workshops
BDSM is not a school subject and not something that our parents teach us. Many feel awkward in what they can do at first, and some practices pose real health or psychological hazards. But also the quality of such a game and the flexibility in the game and the ability to react to different partners and preferences is essentially based on knowledge and skills. It therefore makes sense to learn it from a professional in order to understand it faster, to learn tricks and tricks, to find your own way, to know the risks and to avoid damage. For this we have professional workshops with experts who I specifically impart relevant knowledge without imposing their own opinion on you or any ulterior motives.
Our coaching offer
Some wishes, problems or goals are just very personal or very special or you just don't want to share these things with others. For this we offer private coaching, where you can clarify and solve individual questions, wishes or problems. The topics range from relationships, polyamory, jealousy, to skills in certain things, such as bondage, whipping or being dominant, to targeted experiences such as flying on the ropes, building better synchronization with your partner and many more.
Were
Toys and gear are great additions to the kinky game. We have put together a selection for you to give your kinky game a little more pizzazz. You can also find many of the goods explained in our workshops.